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What Gives a House Soul?

House & Home April 24, 2019

“Surround yourself with what you love, so that your house has soul. Collect, don’t decorate.” – Christy Ford

Houses are one of my love languages. And while I love a beautifully decorated house as well as the next person, my favorite houses are those with a lot of soul. Houses that give you a real sense of the people who live there. Houses that feel like they’ve evolved over time.

In my experience, houses with soul aren’t often trendy. They happily break decorating rules. They’re comfortable and imperfect.

What gives a house soul is hard to describe, but I know it when I see it. Usually, I find that a house with soul has most, if not all, of the following elements.

Art

The Gardener’s Cottage
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Heather Bullard

Photos

Architectural Digest
One Kings Lane
Mary Carol Garrity

Plants and Flowers

Lilla Blanka
My Sweet Savannah
Karen Keysar

Books

River Road Farm
Hamptons House Design
House Beautiful

The everyday on display

Maura Endres
This Is Glamorous
Patsy Schmidt

Here are some more spaces that feel soulful to me.

Southern Living
Nell Hills
Southern Living
Maura Endres
Bungalow Blue Interiors
Sean Anderson Design

What about you? What gives a home soul to you?

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  1. Linda says

    April 25, 2019 at 10:40 am

    I loved this. Please do more. I wonder … can you find “real” houses, like your friend’s, family’s or acquaintances – you don’t have to identify them of course, and share rooms you feel are soulful? I see very few places that speak to me like this.

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    • Julie says

      April 25, 2019 at 2:29 pm

      I’m so glad this resonated with you, Linda. I’ll do my best to keep finding houses with soul to share.

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  2. Janet Arden says

    April 25, 2019 at 9:20 pm

    I loved this post. I think you hit it right with all the elements. Art, books, greenery, photos, and the everyday. They all represent life, or some aspect of it. I think also that houses with soul are careful in how they reveal these characteristics, not willy-nilly, but in a thoughtful way so observers can enjoy them.
    BTW, we have such similar IG feeds. Maura Endres, River Road Farm, Nell Hills (have you read Mary CArol’s books?).

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    • Julie says

      April 26, 2019 at 11:09 am

      Janet, I love your observations. And yes, those are all great IG feeds. I have several of Mary Carol’s books. Her homes are some of my favorites!

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  3. Karen Graham says

    December 10, 2019 at 8:34 pm

    Hi Julie, I too loved this post. And I agree with all the elements you chose to represent soul in a house. I believe these are what make a house, a home. And I see them all in the pictures of your very, lovely home! Thanks for sharing.

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  4. Donna says

    September 8, 2020 at 3:21 pm

    You have summed it up nicely. In one glance you get an impression of who lives there. So glad I stumbled on your post on Pinterest.

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  5. Shelley says

    December 6, 2020 at 8:25 pm

    “Collect don’t decorate”. Love that saying and love all these homes!
    So refreshing to see homes that tell a story..the story of those whom call these house’s their homes.

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  6. Nancy Green says

    December 26, 2020 at 6:16 am

    I love your posts. The rooms draw me in to explore and savor not only the overall impression, but details . I’m renovating (no major reconstruction) my 1959 brick ranch house expressing my love of art, books, the outdoors, dogs and horses. Such a fun project.

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    • Julie says

      December 26, 2020 at 8:19 am

      What a great project, Nancy! Sounds like a very soulful house.

      Reply
  7. Carol J Stenerson says

    January 9, 2021 at 5:11 pm

    I totally loved your selections of soulful homes. They are so homey and well thought out…. yet not “staged.” Please share more liek this!

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    • Julie says

      January 9, 2021 at 7:20 pm

      Thanks for your comment, Carol. I will definitely look for more soulful homes and spaces to share.

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  8. Barbara Heaton says

    January 10, 2021 at 5:48 pm

    What a find your site is Julie…. People ask me to describe how my house is and I just say it’s very eclectic but your turn of phrase, in that a “house has a soul” is wonderful. People who visit, always ask how do you create your style? I feel embarrassed sometimes, as it certainly isn’t” on trend” as some prefer, so I usually say “I live on Planet Zog which helps and I love stuff.” You are right…you layer without knowing it and you need to enjoy the love you have for your “stuff”. Thank you….

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  9. Paige says

    February 21, 2021 at 7:59 pm

    Once when selling our house, after a showing, a realtor leave a note that said “So nice to see a home with a soul. And books.” It made my day. Obviously – still remember it 15 years later

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    • Julie says

      February 22, 2021 at 9:33 am

      Paige, I understand why you still remember it. What a lovely compliment!

      Reply

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